Hold on with me for this is quite long one, my longest blog so far. I just thought of writing a blog regarding church and here it is… I believe we all have to be committed to a church, driven not only by our love for the gospel, God’s people, and God’s Word, but also by the fact that “church” is our Family. Spiritual Family.
We are all given the chance to spend our energy, gifts, and time being involved with and serving GOd in a particular local church, for me it’s Victory New Manila Church, We never God could lead me also to another church to serve Him there, God is in control above all… (i allow myself to be open for such possibilities) Wherever God would lead me… China, Africa, Pioneer or Mindanao. So, as I write this post, I remembered some of my friends whom God called to go to nations and places.
To work their and have their living.Some would like to help in what God is doing in that specific place.They received a “word” from God, God is leading them to some mission, and it was the instruction they had from God. At first, Its kinda’ hard to for me to accept yet as time goes by i get to understand the reasons why.
It was the move of God, It was not a healthy for a church to be just confined in a single place and be contented about, yet there are certain people called to really stay to a church all their lives. but there are some who are called by God to move out and take part in further advancing His Kingdom, as a tentmaker, missionary, church planting team and to help in a church that is newly born or maybe very mature one already.
There are some people i’ve known for years, whose parents recently accepted the Lord in a church nearer their house and is also a Victory church, so that friend of mine decided to join them and serve in that local church. Some reasons could also be “distant-wise” from their house or work/office.
And i will definitely miss them though there will times that some of them will be visiting us from time to time. The very thing that i am thankful for is that they are not “out-of-church”, they are still part of a Victory Church, after all we’re one “Big Family”. Called children of God, in One Big Spiritual Family , We are His Church, His Body and His Bride.
If I simply decided to not show up on one Sunday morning, i would definitely miss the people, the fellowship, worship time, the kids in the Kid’s Church and will find myself doing some phone calls, texting,finding out hows everyone doing, making “Kamusta?” greetings. I just love doing it, i’ve grown up with then and they have been dear to me.
I recognize that we all have various challenges, the challenges of juggling job, relationships, and church commitment. I respect and really appreciate those people in my church who do this very well, Astig talaga kayo, Of course we also recognize those who are tirelessly serving the Lord the extra mile, and those who have devoted their whole lives in serving God in full-time capacity. I remembered a friend of mine who just came from a night-shift duty (graveyard) and went straight not just to attend the service but to serve in the Kids’ Church. I also remember someone who managed to get to the service to lead the worship on that sunday. Some teachers who came from an all-day lecture/class but still managed to be in prayer meetings.

I am really amazed with these people (Astig talaga!), They just can’t help but give God their best. They may not involved full-time in the ministry but they are serving the Lord full-time with their excellent service in their jobs/workplaces, generous hearts,their uncompromised lifestyle and their undying commitment to a ministry in the church. They managed to do that! Truly i call them modern heroes! With that i thought of a question What are some reasons concerning why some people aren’t committed to a local church.
Why do some of them are to contended just attending or visiting church every Sunday mornings? Has the church has been a kinda’ like “out of this world”? Why do some of them just didn’t like doing so? Below is a list of these top three reasons, a brief exploration of the assumptions that I believe underlie each, and the questions I ask to help people critique/re-think these reasons, as I’ve found asking questions to be the best way to bring about a restored relationship between twentysomethings and the church.
Reason #1: “I’m too busy” “I’m too busy.” This is the most common reason I hear for why twentysomethings aren’t committed to a local church. Have you ever used this reason, whether for a season of life or a single Sunday morning? Do you have Christian friends who currently employ this as a reason for not going to church? I have many friends and acquaintances who’ve been saying this for years:
“I’m too busy to be involved in a church… I’m too busy to go to church today…I’m too busy to join a community group.” What’s the assumption underneath this?
Here’s one set of assumptions that might underlie this,
“I have more important things going on…more important things to do…more important priorities that I’m committed to.” Perhaps you’re letting other things, good things, crowd out the priority of the local church. Or maybe even not-so-good things.. I’ve found that I can best serve my own heart and people I know by asking them questions that expose and challenge what’s really important to them. So here are some questions to ask…
Questions: You say you’re too busy right now to be involved in church, when do you think this might change, when might your circumstances clear up and give you more time for church?
Do you really think you’ll be less busy in your thirties than you are right now in your twenties?

What would you say are the 3-5 main commitments that make you so busy, that you devote most of your time to on a weekly basis?
You have 168 hours in a week, minus the 56 hours a week you spend sleeping and the 50 or so hours you spend working, what are the important commitments that fill up the other 62 hours?
Reason #2: “I don’t need to be a part of a church to be a Christian” “I don’t need to be a part of a church to be a Christian.” This was my favorite reason for skipping church as a high school student. This remains a popular excuse today. This is the second most common reason I hear or, more often, observe, from twentysomethings as to why they’re not involved in a local church. Some people articulate this excuse.
They’re not afraid to voice it to me. Others, though shy about verbally stating their belief in church-less Christianity, are outgoing in hinting at and practicing their I-don’t-need-to-be-a-part-of-a-church-to-be-a-Christian-Christianity. What’s the assumption underneath this? Beneath the surface of this excuse is the unstated assumption,
“I’m resourceful enough, adequate enough, and strong enough to live the Christian life by myself.” This is a big topic but fortunately I don’t have to address everything here, I can refer you to some great resources. My favorite would be “Stop dating the Church” by Joshua Harris. Here are some questions to ask yourself or ask a friend. 
Questions: If you had to narrow it down to 2-3 reasons, why exactly do you believe you don’t need to be a part of a church to be a Christian? If hundreds of thousands of other young people across the globe feel that they must be a part of a local church in order to live the Christian life… are you different from them?
How would you explain how your take on the church jives with what the New Testament (most of which is composed of letters written to local churches) says about the local church? Matthew 16 makes it plain that Jesus died for the church,how can you square such a passage with your belief that you don’t need to be a part of a church to be a Christian?
Reason #3: “I haven’t found a church I really like, a church that fits me right” “I haven’t found a church I really like, a church that fits me right.” This is the third most common phrase I hear from young people (twentysomethings), either students or single (professional) as to why they haven’t committed to a local church. I’m beginning to encounter this more and more.
What’s the assumption underneath this? Beneath the surface is the unstated assumption, “Church involvement is dependent upon my personal likes and dislikes…church involvement is dependent upon my preferences and tastes…basically, church is about me.” This is a 21st century excuse i believe. We live in an age of unprecedented individualism and consumerism. Our culture is one of endless options, one that teaches many to keep their options open, endlessly open, so as not to miss out on that better opportunity that just might lurk around the next corner. Past generations would’ve frowned on our modern phrases: “church shopping,” “church hopping.”
I’ve found that a few probing questions can help prompt a shift in both thought and behavior towards the church.
Questions: What is it that you haven’t liked, that hasn’t fit, about the churches you’ve visited? Explain to me in detail, what would it take for you to really like a church, to feel like there’s a fit? [Do you think such a church exists, and if it did, do you think other people would want to be a part of it?]
Where in the Bible do you see the words “like,” “fit,” “preference,” or “taste” held up as criteria for choosing a church?
What do you think about this idea, that part of God’s brilliant design for the local church is for it to be a community where our personal likes and preferences are broken down, refined, and sanctified so that we can experience a community unlike anything the world offers? Ask these questions (of course with love).
Pray for and with them. Trust that the Holy Spirit can use these questions to open people’s eyes to the importance of the local church. We need the church, and the church needs us also. After the Church is not the building, the place, the facility, programs or series of activities, Its each and everyone of Us.
We need one another’s encouragement, strengthen, correct, rebuke, inspire, help, support and stand with one another with our walk with God. “Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, bet let us encourage one another- and all the more as you see the Day approaching” (Heb 10:25).
I still meet up with some of my friends , although they are already attending a different local church, we know that we are all part of a one big church, one big family and that no matter what, our relationship is will still be there.
We’re still sibling to one another. What matters most is that we are still connected and “in love” with our Lord Jesus Christ! And we love one another!
That goes to state that God’s kingdom is advancing. The Church is the “Bride” of Christ, We are His People, His beloved!
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